The first few nights with a new puppy set the tone for months to come. Done calmly, crate training gives your puppy a safe den, helps enormously with toilet training, and gets the whole household sleeping again. Done in a rush, it turns into a battle of wills at 3am. Here is a gentle, step-by-step routine that works with a puppy’s instincts rather than against them.

Why a crate helps at night

Dogs are den animals. A correctly sized, cosy crate taps into a natural instinct to sleep somewhere small, enclosed and safe. It also supports toilet training, because most puppies will avoid soiling the space they sleep in, so a crate teaches them to hold on overnight and signal when they need to go out. Used kindly, it is a comfort, not a cage.

Setting up the crate the right way

Get the set-up right and the training is half done.

  • Size it for sleeping, not roaming. The crate should be just big enough for your puppy to stand, turn around and lie down. Too much space and they will use one end as a toilet. For a breed that will grow, buy the adult size and use a divider while they are small.
  • Make it genuinely comfortable. A supportive, washable mattress or pad makes the crate somewhere a puppy wants to be. Our crate bedding sets are made to fit standard crates, with covers that wash easily for the inevitable accidents.
  • Add a cover. Draping a breathable cover over part of the crate makes it darker and more den-like, which helps an unsettled puppy switch off.
  • Include a familiar scent. A blanket or soft toy that smells of their littermates or of you is reassuring on the first nights.

Where to put the crate at night

For the first week or two, put the crate in your bedroom or just outside the door. A puppy taken from its litter is used to constant company, and being able to hear and smell you stops most of the early crying. Once they are settling well, you can gradually move the crate to its long-term spot over several nights if you prefer they sleep elsewhere.

A calm bedtime routine, step by step

  1. Wind down before bed. No wild games in the last half hour. A short, gentle potter and some calm company helps them settle.
  2. Last toilet trip, every time. Take your puppy out for a wee right before bed, calmly and on the lead if needed, with minimal fuss so they do not think it is playtime.
  3. Settle them in with a cue. Pop them in with a soft word like “bedtime” and a small, safe chew if they like one. Use the same words and order each night so it becomes a signal.
  4. Lights low, voices low. Keep the room dim and quiet so there is nothing to stay awake for.
  5. Plan for one or two toilet breaks. Young puppies cannot hold on all night. Take them out quietly when they wake, do the toilet, then straight back to the crate with no play. As their bladder matures over the weeks, the breaks naturally drop away.

What to do when your puppy cries

Some grumbling on the first nights is normal. The skill is telling apart “I need the toilet” from “I want company”.

  • If it has been a while since the last break, take them out calmly for the toilet, then back to bed. This is a need, and answering it teaches them the crate is where they signal from.
  • If they have recently been out and are just protesting, avoid making a big fuss or lifting them out to play, which teaches that crying ends the crate. A quiet word of reassurance is enough.
  • Never use the crate as punishment. It only works as a safe den if it always feels safe.
  • Expect steady progress, not overnight success. Most puppies settle within one to two weeks of consistent routine.

How long does crate training take?

Most puppies are sleeping calmly through the early evening within a couple of weeks, and through most of the night once their bladder can manage it, often by around four to five months. Consistency is what speeds it up: the same routine, the same words, the same calm response to crying, every single night.

A comfortable, correctly sized crate set makes all of this easier, because a puppy that genuinely likes their bed settles faster. Browse our crate bedding sets and covers sized to fit standard UK crates.

Frequently asked questions

Where should a puppy’s crate go at night?

For the first week or two, in your bedroom or just outside the door so your puppy can hear and smell you. This prevents most early crying. You can move it to its long-term spot gradually once they are settling well.

Should I let my puppy cry it out at night?

No. Young puppies often cry because they genuinely need the toilet, so take them out calmly when it has been a while. If they have just been out and are only seeking company, reassure quietly without lifting them out to play.

How long can a puppy hold its bladder overnight?

As a rough guide, a young puppy can hold on for roughly one hour per month of age, so expect one or two night-time toilet breaks at first. This improves steadily and usually settles by around four to five months.

How long does it take to crate train a puppy at night?

With a consistent routine, most puppies settle within one to two weeks, and sleep through once their bladder matures, often by four to five months.